The holidays are approaching, which means indulging in turkey and pie and fun time spent with family, even in our sunny San Diego winters. For some newly separated families or newly divorced couples, it may be a difficult time, particularly if this is the first holiday season when the parents have split.
For families struggling to find their footing again, here are some helpful holiday tips:
- Focus on your children. This is your time with them, and their holiday with you. It may not be the same as it has been, and some traditions may be different, but many traditions will survive. These can be comforting to you and them. Do things together like decorating, baking, or shopping.
- Provide counseling for the children if necessary, and seek it out if you need it. You wouldn’t be the only one who needs some help this season.
- Follow the orders. If the order sets a time for the exchange, be there. If the order has restrictions, follow them.
- If you’re not sure what your orders say, there is a disagreement, or there are no orders, schedule an appointment with an attorney ahead of time to get your questions answered or an order clarified. Having kinks worked out before you’re pressed for time can be invaluable.
- If the other parent didn’t follow the orders during the holiday, or there are ongoing problems, it may be time to discuss enforcing your orders.
If you have questions or need more specific tips or advice, you can schedule an appointment with our experienced attorney by using the convenient form to the right.
